Holidays
Yes, I know. It's been a long time since my last post, but it's busy in Shanghai!A lot happened recently:
- Dr. Schoenfeldt from the college of business at Appalachian State came for a five day visit to Fudan and Shanghai. We met the 2006 Fudan Holland Fellows for dinner and toured Fudan's new Jiangwan campus, a Versailles looking castle that will be the new campus for Fudan's undergraduate population.
- Kyla and Shannon went back home to Canada for some well deserved R&R before the spring semester starts back up. Kyla plans on coming back to China in April to teach English.
- Had a nice visit with the Warden and CEO of Trinity College of the University of Melbourne. Dr. Markwell was here to research Fudan College, a one year libral arts program now required for all entering freshmen at Fudan University.
- Lindsay flys into Pudong Airport today for a two week visit to China.
I wanted to share two stories of the holiday season with you as my last post before Christmas. First I'll share an e-mail from a friend, Joel Barricklow,
Holidays in paradise…
The holiday season has arrived here in Costa Rica full force. In fact, it began a long, long time ago. In the U.S. we have a wonderful unwritten law that we have to wait until after Thanksgiving to really start Christmas off. The closest I could find in Costa Rica is Independence Day… on the 15th of September. To be honest my internal holiday clock is completely confused. Not only was there not much of a Thanksgiving (although my program did make a valiant effort to cook us dinner… it can never compare to my family) but it just changed seasons to summer. It’s amazing that even though the temperature was usually around the mid to low 70’s, there was a very obvious and beautiful change in weather. The rain stopped coming every afternoon and then one day it was like the atmosphere took off it’s UV protection and let the sun in full blast. However, that means Christmas without snow… something I don’t think I have ever experienced. Forget the snow, does Santa even speak Spanish!
Not only do their Christmas decorations come out earlier, but they are super sized as well. One popular tradition includes building giant nativity scenes inside the house. The family of a friend of mine actually took out the dinner table to fit their scene… During the whole month of December, each little town has a big fiesta. Almost every night you can hear fireworks exploding in some part of the city. Walking down the streets you can often hear Christmas music playing and at times I feel like I am back in the states.
As fun as it sounds to be in Costa Rica for Christmas, I think most of you would agree that Christmas without family isn’t much of a Christmas. I thank God that I have a brother in Panama to spend it with, but this will be the first time without the whole family together. I think this is and will be the hardest part of living here for almost a year. But it is also a great opportunity to see another part of this culture. It has been interesting to talk with people about what Christmas means to them.
When I asked a good friend about what her family does for Christmas, she said that they spend Christmas Eve together, go to Mass (Catholic Church service), eat dinner together and spend time celebrating until around midnight. On Christmas day they wake up, go to church again and spend the day celebrating together. The two days are about celebrating Christ being born and having family together. After she got done explaining this, I asked about gifts – she simply stated that if there was money, the younger children would receive some at midnight. I thought it was interesting that not only was the gift giving not a large part of celebrating, but it wasn’t done on Christmas day. Christmas day was saved for celebrating Christ and family.
One student in our group put together a party for about 150 kindergarteners in the poorest neighborhood in Heredia. Through donations he was able to give each student two gifts as well as hold a party for a couple hours with music and face painting. I can’t really describe how moving it was to watch these kids, who won’t be getting anything at all, receive all of those gifts. However, the most touching moment for me was having a little girl ask for something to put her piece of cake in so she could take it to her mom. Seeing a 6 year old girl make the decision to save her only piece of cake (which in itself was quite a treat) was something that really hit me.
Regardless of your religion, I think we can all respect some of the profound differences we find there. I think the strongest impression listening to and seeing all of this has made on me is not that some traditions are better and some are worse, but that the important thing is having a tradition that celebrates something important. For me as a christian, I would like to say that the most important part of Christmas is celebrating Christ being born. To be honest I find myself thinking more about seeing my whole family… and of course presents. I think all three are important, although their priority levels often get mixed up. Exchanging gifts is a great tradition, but it is giving a gift that is the tradition, not receiving one.
The idea behind this e-mail is not to make anyone feel bad about their tradition or for looking forward to getting a gift. I just thought it would be interesting to share a little bit about what Christmas is here and hopefully get everyone to really think about what Christmas is for them. Maybe it isn't Christmas at all. This is one of the many ways in which living here has taught me a little more about myself and where I come from.
I wish you all a Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! Whatever your tradition is, I hope it brings you joy and thanks for what you have and have been given.
Christmas in China... how do you start?
The opposite is true here in China. The decorations and an excuse to celebrate a western holiday are the only things that happens here. Less than 1% of the population is Christian, so Christmas is not big at all... it's completely commercial. To make it even more interesting, Christmas was not allowed to be celebrated until a little over 20 years ago. Before then, religion was against the law and considered treason against the ideals of the government.
I was welcomed into a department store this weekend with a "Marry Christmas" banner. There are quite a bit of decorations out in stores, but I think people are buying a lot of them for the Chinese new year that will begin in late January.
I wish I was in Joel's situation some days, surrounded by so many people who believe. I spend my days with many people who are agnostic or apathetic to religion. It's so incredibly hard to catch the Christmas spirit with just decorations; it's the love and giving of the season that really makes it feel special.
I'm actually going to Thailand for Christmas. It's supposed to be in the 90's there, so it will be a great break from the 30 degree weather we're having now in Shanghai. I guess it's a little odd to go to a primarily Buddhist country for Christmas, but they're a bit more accepting of religion than China.
There will be more soon about Christmas in Asia after the holidays. I will miss my first Moravian Lovefeast in 22 years, but even harder will be missing time spent with my entire family, whom I only see one time a year. I wish I could be home to celebrate Christmas with my family (and celebrate an NCAA Championship for my Alma Mater, Appalachian State, Go Apps!!), but this year I will experience the Christmas season in China and Thailand, something I may never have the chance to do again, so for that I'm thankful.
Merry Christmas everyone!